Depends
There no such a good formula for distributing experience points, because all have their own function.
Maybe you mean HYBRID, the formula wich can do for any kind of circumtances? I believe it is still not good enough.Why? because you good in one side, you cant be that good on the other side.
So my advice are these...
1. In the beginning, you can leave other alone, except sweet talking and seduction (put all your experience point there)
2. work at the restaurant, do cougars (it will make more money on eaely levels and fast to increase dick)
3. do that until you get your highest job position at the restaurant (150 sweet talking and 150 seduction)
4. Dont use any Candy Coins for any matters except for resetting experience points
5. Use 25 Candy Coins to reset your experience points. and put 150 on sweet talking and 150 on artistic vision (and the rest to fignting)
6. Apply job on spa, work there so you can get a lot of pretty to divine girls, then you can make them to be hoes/actresses
7. do that until you get your highest job position at the spa
8. Use 25 Candy Coins to reset your experience points. and put 150 on sweet talking and 150 on intelligence (and the rest to fignting)
9. Apply job on Hotel, work there so you can get a lot of clients for your girls
10. do that until you get your highest job position at the hotel
11. Use 25 Candy Coins to reset your experience points. and put only 1 poin on all stats except fighting (you put the rest of points to fighting only)
Maybe that can help.
You can do that or not its up to you. But for me, its the best way.