to the risk of downvotes, the answer is in fact to give a premium item to a girl if u feel she s out of ur league (heels for 100% chance, champaign for 85%). No matter what ur mojo and seduction are, u will still have a % of failure , even at high lvls. The reason it wont matter then is u ll have pages full of divine girls' contact, but whenever u ll want a specific girl (for race or atmosphere reason), go for the cc gift.